I'm pretty pissed today.
Lastnight Jen did not come to bed with me so I left the laptop out so she could use it and not bother me in the other room while I was sleeping.
This morning my security log popped up with access attempts on my docs and ones in my personal file that I have encrypted. I checked the user and it was Jen. She was looking at my mail archives that I had not yet encrypted.
On top of all that I looked into the web history only because of this and found that there was some William guy who's blog she has been reading. I don't know who this person is and why she's was trying really hard to find contact info on him. So yes automatically I got pissed because of the pre-reqs that had just been found.
I called her and kinda layed it all down. She has NEVER done anything to make me not trust her but this was it. I have issues with trust already and I have told her all about them and what not to do issue #1 stay out of my personal files.
I think this had chanhed my perception on this relationship...it always does and this is why things just don't work out for me.
She asked if I was going to be home when she got there tonight.
1 comment:
talk to her tonight
maybe she has trust issues too and wonders what is so secret she cant know about and maybe it bothers her
not sure on the william thing. im nosey and google people all the time and stuff like that but it doesnt mean im really into them..just nosey
i hope you had some time to cool off and talk it out tonight.
this isnt much yet to get super upset about, she tried to wander in your email, and looked up info on another blogger.
yes, she knew you want her to stay out of your files and she shouldnt have
but maybe it was bothering or eating away at her, and yeah she should have talked to you about it
it sounds like she was just immpulsive last night
talk it out
xoxoxo
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